LETS TALK ABOUT sex

Sometimes we are too scared to see what’s right in front of us. We are blind to realize that we’ve lost something worth.
The generation we live in is driven by the crowd, monkey see,monkey do. We are afraid to walk in our own footsteps,too afraid to be judged,too afraid to fail and to fall.
Sucked up by the internet, accounts on all social media platforms. You see we are a “lost” generation no longer bound by tradition just driven by lust and curiosity.

Let’s talk about the early pregnancies we see, young, and I say really young girls already called mothers, all for what? Curiosity killed the cat as they say and trust me I am not trying to be Shakespeare here but that curiosity might just kill you, literally and figuratively.
The today parents too afraid to have that sex conversation with their children, what is everyone so ashamed of? Judgment I suggest.
Life isn’t given to us to skip stages, we have go all the way and whatever is in this topic everyone is going to find out whether with help or once again driven by curiosity.

So yesterday I had a sex talk with a friend and let me tell you guys, as much as sex is abused out here by this generation,there are still few real and willing to wait people.
I keep telling myself that good things take time…this is not just a good thing but an amazing experience, to intertwine two souls, this amazing joyland, trust me when I say that sex is like a ride on a rollercoaster, it’s a drive and from this generation it’s a drive of lust not the feeling we define as love.

Faces glued to phone screens taking selfies, chatting and making friends online, we forget that people actually exist in this world, people we can actually have a one on one conversation with, make friends naturally not having friends overseas whom we never even seen neither met.

What exactly does this generation want, love or sex?, Internet or physicality?
You know we define ourselves s a generation to bring change but actually the change we bring is the negative type of change.

What do you want to be in five year time? Where do you want to have gone?What exactly do you want to achieve? We fail to define the key words these days.
The generation we put all our faith in, the generation that will one day bring forth a president,is the same generation you find day drinking at 10 in the morning, partying any day of the week, following and sending hateful messages to people, celebrities who have actually made it.

I watch, I listen and what shocked me the most is the topic and memes on incest!
What exactly is happening, people are now not just fornicating but goofing around intimately with their cousins,uncles and all relatives.
Doesn’t this not shock you! Coz it does scare me.
How on earth are you attracted intimately to family.lets just end this here because it’s actually gross to even be thinking about it.

Let’s come down to this question I know you all knew I’d ask.
What is your definition on sex?
An act of intimacy,
My definition of sex is actually quite simple, sex is not making love, sex is an act of pleasure that two consenting adults choose to indulge in.
I refuse to define it as making love because two people can actually have sex, no strings attached,zero feelings, just the act, pleasure and they are done, but making love…
Think about that.
What exactly is it for you?
The sex, the act itself
Or making love?

I once asked a friend to tell me what she knows about contraceptives, all kinds and wierdly all she said was, “zote ziko na side effects but I prefer a condom”
People chose what contraceptives to use, and we all already know that right now no girl purchases her own plan B pill, the guys have it covered.

My uncle asked me a question, why would a guy love you enough to want and to have sex with you but not enough to want to have a fruit of that same act?
You see men will always be men, and at the end of the day they don’t have any burden or regrets like the ladies will do.

What exactly do you gain from sex, and what do you give? You want to feel the man pulsalating in you, or you want the foreplay in sex? What exactly do we look for and look forward to in sex?

One thing I can say for free,you will experience all types of sexual pleasure but with the right person it will be something else, something new something that you will have never felt before.
Multiple sex partners don’t make you a Pro in that entire sector, actually that makes you a “slut” if I may,
Sex is only making love when it’s consented, when real love is involved,when you actually want to not have to.
But what exactly do we know about real love, well,that’s is our next talk.
Thank you.leave  your own comments  and views on sex, love and anything else worth talking about,

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Muthoni Murigi